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How can they expect another individual to be your puppet? Will you be another person’s puppet? When you can’t do something, how can you expect someone else to do that? When you yourself don’t want to touch the fire, you expect your kid to do jump into it? When you are so damn reluctant to look out of your comfort zone, how do you expect your spouse to step out of it?

Only when they expect others to do things in a way and mean while things pop up in a different manner.

When does a parent get hurt? When they expect their young ones to obey them & their young one doesn’t do that. Instead they revolt telling them “Mom/Dad, please… I am not a kid any more. I know to do thing. Please, it’s my life”

When does a husband/wife get hurt? Its only when they expect their wife to behave in a way, but things turn the other way round.

But if you view these things in another way, you can see that all these people are hurt only because of themselves & not any one else. The dad allows his child to hurt him by expecting a lot from him. The wife gets disappointed only when she allows her husband to hurt her, by expecting a lot from him & she finds that he doesn’t fulfil her expectations.

When will people realize that it’s EXPECTATION which leads to every distress!! Nothing else!! EXPECTATION!! EXPECTATION!! EXPECTATION!!

I wonder, when will these people grow up?

Have anybody watched a dog’s love towards its master? Does it love his master with some expectation? Even if he is not fed for one day, he won’t stop swaying his tail in enthusiasm when he sees his beloved master. It just loves unconditionally!

At the same time, just check out the behaviour of a human!! If a man doesn’t get food for one time, his so called “beloved wife”, heavens save her!! Doesn’t a kid turn the home upside down if his one wish is not fulfil where as the rest 99 are done?

What do you think is the biggest hindrance for people to live & let others live is nothing but “SOCIETY”. But people, please tell me, what is this society? Isn’t just a group containing the so called “Educated & Cultured” individuals who are badly struck in misery? I must say, they are not suffering because of misery. They are enjoying their misery!!

So this Society set certain rules not even thinking that these rules can come as a problem for them selves…They try to impose the same on every individual!! Every child! Every youngster! Every single soul!!

They don’t even let animals escape!! I would say its kinda sadistic pleasure that they experience when they see people going through the same misery which they went through, once in their life time!! Do they believe that it’s a kind of pain that every individual, right from his birth, should go through!!

Even if they have a lot of options to escape from this, neither will they escape from this viscous circle, nor will they let any one to escape… I must say that it’s a combination of masochism & sadism.

If rules are made to restrict people from having healthy fun, why following such rules? Does that make any sense? I would say “No”. To hell with those rules that restricts a baby to smile innocently! To hell with those customs that prevents a flower from blossoming & spreading its fragrance!!

These all are Gifts of God! And why should you obey something which doesn’t allow you to enjoy the God given gifts!! Having said that, I completely agree to the point that there must be a limit for everything… But does that mean, you complete are to be kept away from all happiness that you deserve. You are meant to enjoy your life completely. God has given all of us a short span of time on earth to live or lives the way we want it to, provided that doesn’t hurt anyone.

Live & let live…. That has been my principle in life…. But being very frank I have not followed this lot of times… Have created a hell lot of problems around me… Well!! That’s all I could do at that time!!!

But, believe me… I want it to happen & now I try to walk my talk!!