A very simple and meaningful poem for all the leaders and individuals. The poet & source is unknown.. Thought of sharing with my palz… Hats off to the poet!

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I cannot change the way I am,

I never really try,

God made me different and unique,

I never ask him why.

If I appear peculiar,

There’s nothing I can do,

You must accept me as I am,

As I have accepted you.

God made a casting of each life,

Then threw the mold away,

Each child is different from the rest,

Unlike as night from day.

So often we will criticize,

The things that others do,

But, do you know, they do not think,

The same as me and you.

So God in all his wisdom,

Who knows us all by name,

He did not want us to be bored,

That’s why we are not the same.

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Let’s respect the individuality and try to avoid forcing the way we like. As Respect should be of an individual not of a level and it is to be earned not commanded.

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Everytime I hear this song, I go to some pit of memories… This song is so connected with my life in a lot of ways…

Each word in the song has been uttered by me in my life at many points… So here I share the lyrics with you…

An awesome from Vaaranam Aayiram. Enjoy guys!!

AvaEnna

Ava Enna Enna Thedi Vantha Anjala
Ava Neratha Paathu Sevakum Sevakum Vethala
Ava Alaga Solla Vartha Kooda Pathala
Ada Ippo Ippo Enakku Vendum Anjala
Ava Illa Illa Neruppu Thane Nengila

(Ava Enna Enna Thedi Vantha Anjala..)

O Onnu Kulla Onna, En Nenjikulla Ninna
O Konjam Konjam Aaga, Uyir Pichi Pichi Thinna
Ava Otha Vaartha Sonna, Athu Minnum Minnum Ponna
O Enna Solli Enna, Ava Makki Poana Manna
O Onnu Kulla Onna, En Nenjikulla Ninna
O Enna Solli Enna, Ava Makki Poana Manna

Adanga Kuthiriya Pola, Ada Alanjavan Naane
Oru Poova Pola Poova Pola Marthivitaley
Padutha Thookamum Illa, En Kanavula Tholla
Antha Soazhi Pola Soazhi Pola Punnagayale
Ethuvo Engala Sertha Irukku Kaythula Koarka
Oh Kannamuchi Aatamondru Aadiparthome
Thuniyal Kannayum Katti, Kaiya Katthula Neeti
Innum Thaedura Avala, Thaniya Enge Ponnaloa..
Thaniya Enge Ponnaloa..
Thaniya Enge Ponnaloa..

Ava Enna Enna Thedi Vantha Anjala
Ava Neratha Paathu Sevakum Sevakum Vethala
Ava Alaga Solla Vartha Kooda Pathala
Ada Ippo Ippo Enakku Vendum Anjala
Ava Illa Illa Neruppu Thane Nengila

Vazhka Raatinam Thaanda, Thinam Suthudhu Joara,
Athu Maela Keela Maela Keela Katuthu Thoda
Mothanal Uchathil Irunthaen
Naan Pothunu Vizhundaen
Oru Meena Pola Meena Pola, Tharayila Nelinjen
Yaaro Koodave Varuva, Yaaro Paathiyil Poavaar
Athu Yaaru Enna Onnum Namma Kayyil Illayae..
Velicham Thanthathu Oruthi
Avala Irutula Niruthi
Joora Payanatha Kelappi, Thaniya Enge Ponnaloa..
Thaniya Enge Ponnaloa..
Thaniya Enge Ponnaloa..

Ava Enna Enna Thedi Vantha Anjala
Ava Neratha Paathu Sevakum Yamma Vethala
Ava Alaga Solla Vartha Kooda Pathala
Ada Ippo Ippo Enakku Vendum Anjala
Ava Illa Illa Neruppu Thane Nengila

O Onnu Kulla Onna, En Nenjikulla Ninna
O Konjam Konjam Aaga, Uyir Pichi Pichi Thinna
Ava Otha Vaartha Sonna, Athu Minnum Minnum Ponna
O Enna Solli Enna, Ava Makki Poana Manna..

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Life has been miserable sometimes just because, you dont bother people much & you are busy with your stuffs, inorder to keep yourself out of silly worries & issue. So that you can maintain your cool & fun attitude everytime. But I think people hardly wish for it.. Nobody needs it…

Everyone wants misery, everyone needs issue, everyone needs fight, everyone needs family drama….!!

One person can’t see another one happy without him/her in their company…

Life can be much simpler if we take things in much more simpler way…. But No!! I have hardly seen people taking it that way….!! They make life this serious so that they turn everyday of their life into a misery thinking about their future….

This is insane…!! Strictly insane…!!

Why cant you accept the fact that any person can have fun(healthy one) with/without you… There aint any rule that they should be happy with you only… But try to be a bit broad minded so that you accept the fact that they need change… Watching a person 24/7 becomes such a pain, so that you start loosing interest in them eventually.. Better to maintain a healthy space & distance..

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I was too much confused ‘how can I define love’? I came across a beautiful sentence this morning by Wayn Dyer “Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you“.

Its true nah? In fact I loved it!!
I was stuck in my life, in very complicated point. There were a lot of helping hands around me… Too much of love & care… I was actually left alone…

Some of my good old acquaintance came to me with sympathy/empathy/love and all… But still wasn’t able to choose the correct one. Who will be right? Who will be the one who has got love/care for me? Who is just trying to take advantage of the situation.

One guy, came to me… Told me ” dear, I love you so much. I haven’t felt this kind of intimacy towards anyone. You’re the first person & may be the last one too.But dear, I can only love you…” Well, I couldn’t get the correct meaning of it. But later on I understood that he made everything clear.

Another wellwisher of mine, came to me: “Listen, I cant see you like this. You used to be a person who had all colours in your life. Who used to live evry moment of your life. Who was so enthusiastic about life. And these made me fall for you. You’re one lady whom I loved,with whom I wanted to share my life with. So please cheer up! Life is to Enjoy. Set Targets. Acheive great heights. You’re meant for that dear. I care for you. But I’m afraid I cant invite you to my life. When you were not sure about spending your life with me, I made my Targets. I’ll be alone, will not marry. But will love you.” I must say, I was really stunned. What do I say? I just smiled. That was the best thing I could do, i guess.

There came another soul. He was my friend’s boyfriend. Thats how we became intimate. Now they broke up. He was so intimately in love with her that he wasn’t able to think of any other lady. He was there with me, through my thick & thin. Advising me,encouragin me, scolding me, supporting me. Actually he was a package of friend, teacher, family and god.
When he saw me alone; All alone. He tried to pacify me, gimme strength, make me bold enough to face any situation,to the maximum he could. Gave me a feeling that I have a friend in him. ALWAYS!! COME WHAT MAY!!

And when he saw that I was struggling to get over my problems, he knew that I wanted a support. A helping hand. But it has to be some one whom he could trust. Whom he could think will take care of me.

He told me ” Buddy, I know that you’re going through a phase in your life where you have to have a companion. A person who will not exploit your present situation, who will not take you for granted, who wil love the way you love him. I want you to have the most trust worthy person in the whole world. You’re life is so presious. I value you a lot. To offer you, I have got nothing but my LIFE. You’re completly aware about my past, how much I was in love with her. I am not able to accept any other woman in her place. But I cant afford to risk your life and give you to a person who might not knwo your value, who might take you for granted, who might might not love you and will come to you for any intension like money,sex etc. You never know. But I Love you. Not as my girl friend. But as my everything. You were the only one who was there to support me when I was left alone. You’re the only one with whom am comfy, with whom I can share all my views. My day wont be complete if I don’t talk to you for a single day. I would like to take care of you my whole life. But there is no compulsions”

Friends, that were some beautiful sentence that I’ve every heard in my life. Some words whcih touched me like anything. I’m not in love with him. Neither is he. But we do care for each other.

In this era, where people try to get rid off burdens & headaches,I saw a MAN who was ready to share my tears. I have seen many relations were people just use others for their personal benefits. Some want SEX, others want CASH, Some others want POWER. He was a GENLTLEMAN who is knows to respect every lady, who dont use any one for his benefit. He is a MAN. Thanks my Friend!!

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